They say you
can't judge a book by its cover but how many of us make judgments about people
just based on their telephone speaking voice? People form opinions and make judgments
about us in the first 60 seconds they see us. People also make judgments about
us based on the way we sound on the telephone.
Because people
cannot "see" us over the telephone they will form these opinions
based not only what we say, but also on "how" we say it. In fact the
message we communicate over the telephone is based on two qualities; (1)
"What" we say (Verbal) and (2) "How" we say it. Several
studies have indicated that as much as 87% of the opinions people form about
us, when speaking to us on the telephone, are based on the tone of our voice.
Only 13% is based on the actual words we use. We all do this. People can
"hear" our personality and mannerisms through the tone of our voice.
We live in a
world of answering machines and "voice mail". This is especially true
in the business world. How many of us find ourselves playing "telephone
tag" with each other. By the time you actually speak with the person you
were trying to contact you've left 2 or 3 messages. In those short message
exchanges, the party on the other line has already formed an opinion about you
based solely on your speaking voice. In order that people form a good image
about you here are some tips which can help your spoken image.
Tips
when "Answering" the telephone call
1. Answer the
telephone by the third ring -
Answer the telephone or make sure your answering machine picks up the telephone
by the third or fourth ring. Do not let the telephone ring and ring. Many of us
say how we "hate" speaking into these answering machines, but at the
same time we also hate not having the option of leaving a message.
2. Make sure
your greeting is professional
- Make sure your greeting is short but very professional. Write down and
practice your greeting several times before you actually record your greeting.
Play it back and listen to your own speaking voice. Is your message too fast?
Is it too slow? Make sure your greeting sounds professional and clear. Give the
caller clear instructions what to do when leaving their message.
3. Be prepared
before you answer the telephone
- Have a pad of paper and pencil ready when you answer your telephone. Be
prepared to be an "active" listener and take notes when someone
calls. Especially write down the person's name who has called so you can use
their name during your conversation with them. People "love" to hear
their name.
4. Be an
"active" listener -
Take notes as you speak. Let the people know you are taking notes and this will
signal them not to speak too fast. Ask for the correct spelling of their name.
Don't assume their name is spelled the same as others. It may have a unique
spelling.
5. Return
telephone calls promptly! - To
me, this is the most professional telephone habit people should possess. Be
that person who DOES return telephone calls. Many people DO NOT return
telephone calls! I have left numerous messages with people and companies who DO
NOT return telephone calls. Quite often I have received a call from someone
asking to order one of my products and I spend days, even weeks trying to
contact them. I always try and return telephone calls within 4 hours,
regardless of where I am. People who know me know that I am prompt in returning
telephone calls.
6. Check Your
Messages Frequently - If you
are out of your office often as I am, check your messages several times a day.
People may be looking to contact you quickly. It's not unusual for me to
receive calls from newspapers or magazines looking for information on a story.
They are usually on a deadline and are looking for "quick" turn
around. In my case, being a professional speaker, the call I receive may be a speaker’s
bureau that is looking to check my availability for a client today! If I do not
return the telephone call promptly, I may have lost that speaking engagement
and that potential client.
Tips
when "Leaving" a telephone message
1. Do not
speak too fast! - Slow down
when you are leaving a message, especially if you have an accent. I receive
many messages where I cannot even understand what the person is saying. Even
worse, I cannot write fast enough and I find myself replaying the message
several times to record the entire message.
2. Pronounce
your name clearly - Announce
your name slowly and clearly, especially if your name is not a common name.
Spell your name slowly if necessary. Allow people to get the correct spelling
of your name.
3. Slow down
when saying your telephone number
- This is the biggest complaint I have when people leave their telephone
number. People state their telephone numbers TOO FAST! Say the numbers slowly
and place a "pause" somewhere in the sequence of providing your
number. People will appreciate this, especially me!
4. Give your
company name, your title & why you are calling - Describe to the person, in a few short sentences
who you are, which company you are with and why you are calling. If you are
requesting information, leave a detailed but brief message.
5. Let them
know when to call you back -
Leave a date, time, and preferred telephone number for people. They can't
return your telephone call if you don't leave your telephone number. Providing
them with the preferred time to call back makes it much easier for them.
6. Always
sound professional - Remember
what I indicated in the beginning of this article. People DO judge you by the
tone of your voice and what you say. If you come across sounding unprofessional
in your message, they may not return your telephone call. Also, do not leave
very long winded messages or they will stop listening.
By Lenny Laskowski












